@blamellors I’ve seen some photos that suggest she’s making a lot of men very happy at football games.
this is why NAS gets blocked, not genius comments that lefties don't want to see cause they prove their ideology silly. but saying it's the latter makes for a much better complaint re free speech etc.
cause he continues to push the Sandy Hook conspiracy and apparently has no idea how fucked up that is to those families. so I made a joke and maybe he felt some tiny percentage of what those families feel. when people are unrepentant bullies, you don't just let them keep doing that shit. he thinks AJ shouldn't have had to pay anything. you guys think the left should take the abuse. the only reason this shocks you is cause most lefties just run away by blocking the servers.
bad feels can hurt. imagine some guy making the Taylor joke about your daughter. or posting the AI porn. you'd punch the fucker. instead people like Trump get looked up to. it's so weird.
@wjmaggos Well, I’d get angry. However, I’d also realize that I hadn’t done enough to protect her and my family, as well as realizing that there was literally zero that I could do about it. Streisand effect.
@amerika @blamellors @Bunnyslope @nam
part of #darkpluralism would also be a strong bias towards anonymity and assholes. IRL when people discuss things, we don't call each other slurs and tell them to die. we don't do hell threads. we developed IRL ways of interacting over time cause they work best. maybe something else would work better online. but your current proposal would just mean fewer people participate and they tend to think more like you than the average person. unintentional? IDK
@amerika @blamellors @Bunnyslope @nam
the world doesn't use BBSes/USENET. afaik those are closed communities that attract certain audiences. FSE can defederate if it wants. I want a world where everybody feels welcome on fedi. like someone feels welcome discussing issues in public places. we compromise to do that, especially if we want people who disagree with us to feel welcome. we try to find ways to say things people might not want to hear in ways they might tolerate. that's the full ask.
@amerika @blamellors @Bunnyslope @nam
your theory that over time, people will be fine with it, hasn't played out with more people being public about themselves on jerk fedi. and IRL, increasing crassness has just made more people crass and do more separating from each other (which fits your stated goal for the world, total coincidence I'm sure). how about we police for niceness first, get everyone here and used to diff opinions expressed well, then let everyone drop more slurs in a few years.
@wjmaggos Incorrect. Sure BBS’ have pretty much disappeared, but Usenet is very much a thing. Is it as popular as it was 25 years ago? No. However the days of flamewars ended long ago as well. Why? Because people matured and saw that their actions had consequences. People found ways to deal with people without screaming back into the void.
If you want a world where everyone feels welcome because they won’t be offended, then you want a world without opinions.
@Bunnyslope @amerika @blamellors @nam
doesn't USENET have admins and don't they moderate? or is it all up to individual? don't people decide where to go partially based on how annoying the people there are?
@wjmaggos @amerika @blamellors @nam Nope and nope.
No admins. Wild West. Completely unregulated. Individual newsgroups can be as general or granular as chosen by the posters. A number of them don’t have any relation to their title. alt.barney.die.die.die has nothing to do with Barney the Dinosaur or the TV show. Usenet and newsgroups are what you do or don’t make of them. Mainly communities of people who have an interest in the same topic(s). Me, I monitor probably 50 or so newsgroups.
@Bunnyslope @amerika @blamellors @nam
so could an individual mute other users? did people get tired of people on a server and start another one?
@wjmaggos @amerika @blamellors @nam No. Depending on your client/newsreader (really a misnomer) you could filter out the posts you weren’t interested in seeing. But there was no “Mute” or “Block” button.
You simply didn’t engage. When people are trolling, it’s for attention and engagement. When they don’t get it, they go away, or moderate their behavior.
This is where the very old saying “Don’t Feel the Trolls” comes from.
Also, other shorthand slurs like Foad, gfy, esad.
@Bunnyslope @amerika @blamellors @nam
I don't understand how it worked. if a school had a bbs and somebody wanted to be a jerk but not violate the law, what were their options and what could people do to avoid them? could the jerk see everybody using the system and tag them with mean stuff? who had access? was it possible for a kid to log in anonymously and tag everybody to say his teacher shit himself today?
@wjmaggos @amerika @blamellors @nam Again, too detailed to fully explain the mechanics of a BBS. Impractical for a single school to have a BBS. Imagine a central server with Forum software. It literally has tens or hundreds of phone numbers that can dial into the server. If it was full, you got a busy signal. Depending on how the admin set it up (anonymous, real name, obfuscated) you may or may not know who was saying what.
@amerika @wjmaggos @blamellors @nam Agreed. With Usenet it took sime work to filter out the truly horrible people. It wasn’t worth the effort to filter someone just because they said something that I simply didn’t agree with, or slightly offended my sensibilities. Social Media today is very much an echo chamber because it’s *too* easy to block/mute, and people aren’t exposed to differing views.
@Bunnyslope @amerika @blamellors @nam
how would you filter out someone? what's a killfile?
@amerika @blamellors @Bunnyslope @nam
if somebody on a school bbs or usenet posted slurs, what would happen?
@wjmaggos @amerika @blamellors @nam I’m not sure that you understand the mechanics of how BBS’ worked.
It would come down to how it was set up and who was on.
@amerika @blamellors @Bunnyslope @nam
could you tag people?
@amerika @wjmaggos @blamellors @nam And not as easily as Fedi, X, Facebook. It took effort.
@amerika @blamellors @Bunnyslope @nam
so what I'm hearing is that it was/is a very different system that would not allow a worldwide network of anonymous people to easily search out others to tag with die slur in such a way that their only recourse was to individually block/mute them, only for them to use another account and do it again. correct?
cause that's what I have a problem with and think the "no policing" people here want. and it seems comparing the two doesn't shed light on anything.
I'm sorry @amerika but this is a pattern with you. claim you have an example that shows your way is the best, keep pounding it into everyone's heads, but then when looked into, it's not comparable at all. the different details really fucking matter. and we're left wondering (maybe just me) if you really believe what you're saying or just hoping people will push those changes so you'll get what you want, but you know it would actually be nothing like you promised.
@wjmaggos @amerika @blamellors @nam Kinda, sorta, not really.
Usenet and newsgroups are like NAS, only much larger, so the comparison is apt.
You can find people and interact with them, it’s just…different.
So far as creating a new account, it was much easier to filter the douches out, so there wasn’t a point in creating a new account just to be a troll.
Because everyone had to be somewhat computer literate to be on Usenet (or a BBS), users were competent in dealing with others.
@Bunnyslope @amerika @blamellors @nam
I get how NAS might be like usenet, but I am talking about the fedi generally. that's the biggest part of where his comparison doesn't make sense imo. unless there is fediblocking, what one server does can affect others. that's not true on a bbs afaik. even NAS instituted a check process to try to make sure new accounts were listeners. imo people who want almost zero rules on harassment on the fedi (and no server blocks) just want it to stay small or fail.
@wjmaggos
For this discussion BBS' don't apply. They're usually smaller communities, controlled by owners. Usenet is like the Fedi. Newsgroups are like NAS, or POA.ST For all intents and purposes, Usenet & Newsgroups are wide open. No blocks, no requirements to join a newsgroup. Literally like lurking on any platform, and interacting with whomever you please. Usenet is even more decentralized than the fedi. You can't take down a group, & posts can exist for years. @amerika @blamellors @nam
@wjmaggos
…or even decades. Probably what separates Usenet from social media as it exists today, is that in order to get access to read posts, you can sign up with a provider for free or you can pay for it. Providers who offer free accounts typically don’t see all the newsgroups and retention (how long the provider keeps the posts) can be measured in days or months.
@wjmaggos @blamellors I've seen you do this same bit multiple times. Your impact on the world is and will be minimal as you're a hypocritical little weasel that begs and cries for attention.
you jumped in to call her a whore but I'm the asshole.